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Why I got into BDSM Coaching

Updated: Oct 1, 2020

My destiny to offer BDSM and polyamory coaching for a number of reasons. My MBTI personality type is ESFJ which is the Consul personality type. I am a natural educator but never felt that the classroom was where I belonged. I am driven to help people because I could have used the same help ten years ago.

ESFJ is the Consul personality type, meaning I am perfect to be a consultant and educator. ESFJ stands for Extrovert (over introvert), Sensing (over intuiting), Feeling (over thinking), and Judging (over prospecting). This means I am plenty outgoing so I don't mind reaching out and getting involved, I'm Sensing so I want to measure my perceptions against known quantities, I'm feeling so I listen to my heart, and I am Judging so I stay focused and dedicated to my goals. All together this makes me a "consul" personality type. Perfect for giving people advice and coaching.

My earliest dream was to be an educator but the classroom never felt right to me. Now I find myself as the Director of Education at Sanctuary LAX Studios, a role that puts me squarely in the center of a dungeon education program and I love it. It brings be great pleasure to help people find the resources that were difficult to find for a long time. It is even better that this job helps me connect with people on an even more personal level when they elect to engage with me as a one-on-one coach.

Lastly, I ran a similar company years ago in a technical field. The structure of the company is nearly the same but it was in a more different context. I deeply enjoyed being able to help people directly but realized that BDSM is something I am extremely passionate about and it is an even better endeavor that my previous one. This endeavor has allowed me to dive deep into what I am most passionate about and share that passion with you.

I look forward to the opportunity help you like I have helped so many others.


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